Today, mum and i talked bout guys.. I asked mum, how do we noe if tat guy is keen to be with me or not.. Mum answered, tat guy must have patience towards me, never ever take advantage of me, respect my pride... Tats the important part.. And well, mum knew almost every guy tat im fren with.. Its important for her to know with whom i befrens with.. I used one of my ex as an example.. He got tattoos.. But he managed to win my mum's heart, be a loving and caring bf, faithful to one.. However, mum adviced me not to find someone tat has tattoos.. Some sort like bad impression.. No matter how good he is.. Mum adviced me to find someone tat is professional, eventhough he smokes or wadever.. Well, mum knew tat i smoke but she really really wan me to quit! Its not only bad for my health but also a bad impresssion wen people ard happened to notice me. In another word, guys, no matter how bad they are, they definately wan a woman to be professional, a true woman! Even a womanizer wans a good wife.. As for me, i really wan to amend.. Not now but soon.. I wont wan to be toy ard with.. Its really hard to find a good guy.. 1st date, they can be good.. For example, they fetched u fron wherever u are, they pull the chair for u wen u guys went dinner or wad.. And the next date, they did none of tat.. Because wad, they are the type tat just want to impress u on the first date.. How stupid! Duh~ Thus, get to noe tat person well before anything if u dun wanna regret.. Observe them quietly in ur own way.. Not control, OBSERVE.... Haha! Im stating all this based on some experience.. :)